A Strong woman is a Sexy woman

There are certain things in life that women want and need to feel good; appreciation, a sense of accomplishment and the feeling that our presence makes everything better.  We want to feel desirable to our significant others and needed by our families.  Life can be hard. We all go through tough times and many of us find ourselves stuck behind a wall; a wall that we build to keep pain and insecurities out.   With each rough patch of our life, this wall becomes higher and thicker.  In theory, it seems like a good idea. It is protecting us from the dangers on the other side, but in reality it is trapping us.  We can fight the battle on the other side of the wall, and we can win.  I don’t know about you, but I am tired of hiding.  I’m ready to be free of fear and live my life with no limitations.  I am loved, and I deserve to be loved, and so do you.  It’s days like this, when I have to remind myself that I am beautiful, inside and out, and I am loved.  We are strong.  We are women. We create, inspire, love, give, feel and bring so much happiness to others, that it’s time we inspire ourselves.

That’s right, it’s time to face the demons of your past with every ounce of fight in your body; and trust me it’s not easy, but it is worth it.  You’re going to stumble and doubt yourself at times, but you are strong, and you have the capability to learn from your mistakes and continue fighting.  The demons that haunt you don’t have that luxury of self-growth.  They are stuck in the past, and over the years they have lost their purpose and their strength has diminished.

Lean on your loved ones: If there was ever a time to let your loved ones into your head, it’s now.  Although it’s difficult to do the concept is simple: If you want your spouse to care and support you, you have to talk to them about what’s going on.  Sometimes I think the hardest thing to do is ask for a hug.  We expect people to know what we need, and that’s not fair to anyone including ourselves.  When you appreciate others, they will appreciate you.

Keep adding to you good memories:  Remember the feelings you had when you first fell in love?  They are a little short story tucked away in our memory catalog, and when we look back at them we can’t help but smile.  But over time relationships evolve, and this book is layered with new unorganized memories.  And for some reason, the fight over who forgot to put the milk away (that lasted for 5 minutes) seems more important than the weekend away from the kids.  It doesn’t have to be this way. That short story can become a novel by simply moving it to the front of your catalog and adding to it regularly.  Whether they are simple or elaborate, it should be a priority to create new, good memories.  Want some help cleaning the kitchen?  Try doing the dishes wearing nothing but underwear; it usually works for me, and it makes it so much more enjoyable doing it with my love. 

Always remember: You are strong.


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